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We Are Compatible

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.
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Nov 22, 2017

Rev. Will Green is a pastor at Ballard Vale United Church in Andover, MA, which is a joint United Methodist and United Church of Christ congregation. He is also a member of Love Prevails. Josh and Alex speak with Will about his personal story as well as his journey into the work of fighting for change within the United Methodist Church.

Nov 1, 2017

Rev. Alex da Silva Souto is the senior pastor at New Milford United Methodist Church. He is also, along with Rev. Lois McCullen Parr, a co-convened of the United Methodist Queer Clergy Caucus. Josh spoke with Alex on Oct 28th just after Alex’s return home from the meeting of Judicial Council in Los Angeles.

Recorded on 10/28/17

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Oct 17, 2017
David Mayo grew up in the Baptist Church and experienced rejection from his faith community when he came out as a gay man. David studied Sociology and International Studies at Ohio State University during which he served as an intern at Summit on 16th United Methodist Church in Columbus, Ohio.
 

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Oct 10, 2017

Rubén Castilla Herrera is a native Texan who spent his childhood working with his family as migrant farmer workers. He is a graduate of the Methodist Theological School in Ohio, and he works as an immigrants and farm workers rights advocate in Columbus, Ohio.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Oct 3, 2017

Rev. David Weekly is a United Methodist Pastor, serving at St. Nicholas United Methodist Church, and he is a transgender man. David resides in Massachusetts with his wife, Deborah. In 2009, David share his story in his book, 'In from the Wilderness: Sherman: She-r-man.'

Recorded on 9/10/17

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

May 31, 2017

On May 30th, Josh was featured as part of a panel along with Jaren Terry of PFLAG Columbus and Siobhan Boyd Nelson of Stonewall Columbus for a discussion of homosexuality and the church on WVKO 1580 AM, a conservative Christian radio station, with show host Shanikka Flinn.

 

Recorded on 5/30/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

May 16, 2017

Even though we are technically on a break between seasons, we wanted to take a moment and recognize that a significant event happened within the United Methodist Church in terms of the denomination's relationship with LGBTQ+ persons in general and Bishop Karen Oliveto in particular. Please join us as Josh and guest co-host, MTSO Associate Professor of Christian Ethics Dr. Yvonne Zimmerman have a candid conversation with Bishop Oliveto.

Recorded on 5/11/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Mar 28, 2017

For this episode, we are pulling back the curtain a bit to introduce you to two of the people who work to make this podcast possible.

Justin Nelson Nowakowski is a lifelong United Methodist and is currently a layperson at Broad Street United Methodist in downtown Columbus, Ohio. He contributes to the podcast by working on fundraising and development.

Jacob Rollins was raised in the United Methodist church although he does not currently consider himself religious. He got involved in the podcast through Equality Ohio and helps out through running microphones during recordings and editing the podcasts.

 

Recorded on 3/24/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Mar 21, 2017

Joe Cobb was a United Methodist Elder for 20 years, and Leigh Anne Taylor is a United Methodist Deacon. They were married and even serving at the same church together until Joe could no longer deny the truth of his sexuality. While it was not an easy journey, they walked this journey together and have found their way to a place of peace with each other, their new loves, their children, and with God. They have shared their story in their book, 'Our Family Outing,' and we were honored to be able to have them as guests on our show.

 

Recorded on 3/13/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Mar 14, 2017

This week Josh and Alex talk to someone a bit outside our normal guest pool, someone who thinks a bit differently. Bill Halter, who will be ordained as a United Methodist Elder in a few months, would not, based on his current theological understanding, perform a wedding for an LGBTQ+ couple, but he does believe that the incompatibility language should be removed from the Book of Discipline. He sees a church that is big enough and strong enough to sustain differing views and beliefs while focusing on our commonalities. Bill is currently serving as pastor at two United Methodist congregations, Maplewood United Methodist Church and Lockington United Methodist Church.

 

Recorded on 3/7/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Mar 7, 2017

Rev. Dr. Pamela Lightsey is the Associate Dean for Community Life and Lifelong Learning and the Clinical Assistant Professor of Contextual Theology and Practice at the Boston University School of Theology. She earned her Master's of Divinity at the Gammon Seminary at the Interdenominational Theological Center and her Ph. D. at Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary. She also happens to be an out lesbian and a powerful advocate for social justice. We are honored to have her as a guest on the show.

Recorded on 2/28/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Feb 21, 2017

Frank Parmir is an organizer with the organization Muslims for Progressive Values. Christianity and United Methodism is not the only arena of religion and faith where discussions of LGBTQ persons is taking place. Alex and Josh speak with Frank about what his faith tells him about this topic and how he arrived at his stance of acceptance and inclusion within his own faith context.

Recorded on 2/7/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Feb 14, 2017

Steven Dunn, after many years apart from organized religion, has found a space for himself within the United Methodist Church after having experienced what he saw as an extremely generous gesture on the part of a United Methodist pastor. He is an openly gay man, and he attends Summit on 16th United Methodist Church in Columbus, OH. Listen with us as Josh and Alex talk to Steven about his powerful story of exclusion and reconnection.

Recorded on 2/7/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Feb 7, 2017

Izzy Alvaran is the Western Regional Organizer for Reconciling Ministries Network, and he is an ordained elder in the Philippines Annual Conference. He currently lives in San Francisco. Listen to Izzy's story as he has a conversation with Josh and Alex about his journey.

Recorded on 1/24/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Jan 31, 2017

This week Josh and Alex talk to Josh's own pastor, Rev. Lou Seipel. She is the senior pastor at Broad Street United Methodist Church in Columbus, OH, and she identifies as an ally. Lou shares her views on difference and how she has made space in her own life and ministry all persons. 

Recorded on 1/24/17.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Jan 24, 2017

Josh and Alex speak to Giselle Lawn, a transgender woman living in northern Florida. She is a former Reconciling Ministries Network board member and is also currently serving on the United Methodist Alliance for Transgender for Inclusion.

Recorded on 1/10/17.


The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Jan 17, 2017

This week Josh and Alex talk to Jarell Wilson. Jarell is currently a candidate for ministry in the Northern Illinois Conference, and he serves in a pastoral role at Urban Village Church in Chicago. Join us as Jarell shares his story and his personal vision for ministry!

Recorded on 1/3/17.
The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215. Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Dec 13, 2016

On October 11th, National Coming Out Day, Alex and Josh sat down with former lead singer of Christian rock band Everyday Sunday. In May of this year, Trey came out publicly in 6-1-4 Magazine as a gay man. As a married father of two and having spent the last several years in the spotlight of conservative evangelicalism, Trey embarked on the journey to navigate and honor his truth while balancing his personal, creative, professional, and faith commitments. Trey shares about the events that led him to his decision to come out and about what lies ahead for him. Learn more about Trey at www.treypearson.com or at www.facebook.com/treypearson. He also tweets at @treypearson.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215.  Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Nov 22, 2016

This week's guest is Reconciling Ministries Network's Northern Regional Organizer Lois McCullen Parr. Lois has found two life-giving locations in her journey: the church, and the LGBTQ community. However, the overlap of these two communities has been rare (and even harmful). This intersection is where Lois heard God’s call to ministry at age 40. In seeking to be faithful to the Gospel revealed in Jesus, Lois hopes to preach and teach about the God who created us good, and loves us no matter what. Lois’ favorite Bible verse is “nothing in all creation can separate us from the love of God” (Romans 8), and she hopes that ministry can be a source of healing and justice.

In addition to her part-time organizing with RMN in The UMC, Lois also serves as a facilitator for “Doing Our Own Work: An Anti-Racism Seminar for White People” with Allies for Change; and as a facilitator for Creating Culturally Proficient Communities in Ypsilanti Community Schools.

Recorded on 11/16/16.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please click the link below:

https://act.myngp.com/Forms/-3552487593902536960

Or mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215.  Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

Oct 12, 2016

Alex and Josh have a conversation about their reactions to the Wesleyan Covenant Association. Listen in and hear their thoughts. They also invite you, their listeners, to chime in via e-mail and social media. Join us, and be a part of the conversation! Recorded on 6/11/16.

The purpose of 'We Are Compatible' is to explore the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals and families as well as their allies in order to show that, regardless of what the United Methodist Book of Discipline may say, they are, in fact, compatible. Please join hosts, Alex Shanks and Josh Culbertson, as they explore these stories of courageous authenticity.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/wearecompatible

Twitter: @wearecompatible

E-mail: wercompatible@gmail.com

If you would like to support this podcast financially, please mail checks to:

Equality Ohio Education Fund; 118 E. Main St; Columbus, OH 43215.  Write 'We Are Compatible' in the memo line.

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